In this episode of the Fail First Podcast, we are joined by Riley Bohnert, a rising pickleball star, and her father, Chris Bohnert, as they dive into Riley's inspiring journey to professional success on the pickleball courts. Riley shares the pivotal moments that led her to choose pickleball over college, including a transformative tournament experience in New York. With the unwavering support of her family, especially her dad, who has been both coach and cheerleader, Riley speaks candidly about her fears of letting her family down and her determined resilience in overcoming challenges. We also explore the enriching community and competitive spirit found at Next Gen tournaments, where Riley has created a "family." Chris also dives into how he has learned to navigate being a Coach to Riley as well as a Father. Join us on this episode that has a little bit of everything.
1. Introduction to Riley Bohnert and Her Background [00:00:00] * Riley's relationship with her father as both a dad and coach. [00:00:00] * Riley's start in pickleball around the age of 16. [00:00:14] * Riley's fear of letting her family down. [00:00:28]2. Riley's Decision to Pursue Pickleball Professionally [00:01:29] * Her choice of pickleball over college. [00:01:35] * The pivotal moment of winning a bronze medal with Emily Ackerman. [00:01:46] * Discussion with her parents about not attending college. [00:02:53]3. Parental Support and Conditions Set by Her Parents [00:03:31] * Her parents’ realization of the importance of happiness over traditional paths. [00:03:31] * Conditions set for pursuing pickleball: structure and work ethic. [00:03:31]4. The Role of Family and Emotional Support [00:04:56] * Emotional support from her father and managing emotional lows. [00:04:56] * Riley’s father's approach of giving her space and recognizing her own skills. [00:09:13]5. Father-Daughter Relationship in Sports [00:06:29] * Playing various sports with her father as a coach. [00:06:29] * Learning discipline and having post-game discussions with her dad. [00:06:47]6. Experiences and Challenges in Sports [00:07:28] * Memories of comebacks and competitiveness in pickleball. [00:07:28] * The significance of team dynamics and overcoming challenges. [00:10:33]7. Triathlon Experiences and Building Confidence [00:11:15] * Riley’s experience in triathlons as a child. [00:14:48] * Overcoming the fear of swimming in lakes. [00:16:02]8. Next Gen Experience and Community [00:17:04] * Riley’s participation and experience with Next Gen tournaments. [00:17:04] * The community feeling and camaraderie among participants. [00:18:16]9. Riley's Reflections on Failure [00:21:45] * Reflecting on personal challenges during high school. [00:21:45] * Learning from failures to become stronger. [00:22:30]10. Parental Reflections on Coaching and Parenting [00:23:11] * Riley’s father's reflections on coaching and expectations. [00:23:11] * Adjusting coaching style to suit Riley’s needs and personality. [00:25:03]11. Greatest Fears and Moving Forward [00:25:34] * Riley’s fear of letting her family down with her decision. [00:27:27] * Her father's continuous concern for her well-being and choices. [00:25:52]12. Recent Success and Future Prospects [00:29:17] * Riley’s recent achievements in tournaments. [00:29:31] * Her parents’ pride in her progress and future potential. [00:29:17]